A Father’s Dream: The Untold Story of Male Infertility in Nepal

The Silent Struggle of Fatherhood

In Nepal, fatherhood is seen as a symbol of masculinity and legacy. Yet, for some men, infertility becomes an invisible battle—shrouded in shame, secrecy, and stigma. While infertility is often blamed on women, male infertility remains largely unspoken. This is the story of two men—Ramesh and Suresh—who faced the challenge of infertility in very different ways, revealing the emotional and societal struggles men endure.

Ramesh’s Journey: Guilt and Acceptance

Ramesh, a 32-year-old teacher from Kathmandu, dreamt of fatherhood. After years of trying, he and his wife Anjali faced growing pressure from family and society. When tests confirmed he had a low sperm count, he couldn’t bring himself to admit the truth. Instead, he stayed silent as Anjali endured fertility treatments and societal blame.

His guilt turned into isolation, avoiding family gatherings and feeling like a failure. It was only when he saw Anjali suffering in silence that he finally opened up, confessing the truth with tears in his eyes. Together, they sought medical help, realizing that infertility wasn’t about failure—it was a medical condition with solutions.

Suresh’s Story: Denial and Realization

Suresh, a 35-year-old businessman from Pokhara, refused to accept his infertility diagnosis. In his mind, he was strong and successful—how could he be infertile? Instead of seeking help, he blamed his wife, Mina, for their childlessness, believing she wasn’t trying hard enough.

His denial fueled anger, turning their once-loving relationship toxic. His family pressured him to remarry, while Mina silently endured humiliation. It wasn’t until she threatened to leave that Suresh faced the truth. A doctor’s words hit him hard: "Infertility is not a failure—it’s a medical condition, and it’s treatable." For the first time, he accepted that the problem was real and that he needed to be part of the solution.

Breaking the Silence: The Unspoken Stigma of Male Infertility

In Nepal, infertility is often considered a woman’s issue. Men rarely acknowledge their role, fearing judgment and loss of status. This silence prevents them from seeking medical care, leading to broken marriages, emotional trauma, and unnecessary blame on women.

Both Ramesh and Suresh realized that avoiding the truth only deepened their struggles. When they embraced their reality and sought medical help, they found hope. With support, Ramesh and Anjali successfully conceived after fertility treatment. Suresh and Mina’s journey was longer, but through counseling and treatment, they too found success.

Finding Hope with Vardhan Fertility Center

Infertility is not a reflection of masculinity—it is a medical challenge that can be treated. Advances in reproductive medicine offer solutions, and Vardhan Fertility Centre provides expert care to help couples on their journey to parenthood.

Ramesh and Suresh’s stories remind us that true masculinity isn’t about avoiding problems—it’s about facing them with courage and responsibility. Let’s break the silence. If you or someone you know is struggling with infertility, reach out to Vardhan Fertility Centre. Because every father’s dream deserves a chance.